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To Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship, Get Off the Sexual Staircase

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"Sexual Staircase" describes the kind of routine, goal-oriented sex that people engage in when they're having sex with their partner  What is the Sexual Staircase? The Sexual Staircase, which is a metaphor, is how most people think sex is "supposed to be." The Sexual Staircase is a list of hierarchical steps that usually start at the bottom of the staircase with foreplay and ends with sexual intercourse and orgasm. Depending upon the couple, the sexual acts between foreplay and intercourse can include kissing, caressing, genital touch, oral sex, and so on. For many people in long term relationships these steps don't deviate. They engage in the same steps in the same way most or all of the time.   After a while, people in long term relationships often skip some of the steps as they prioritize a goal-oriented approach that always ends with penetrative sex and strives for orgasm.   Having sex the same way all the time becomes boring after a while.   What'...

The Real Reasons Guys Love Doggy Style So Much

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It's no secret that guys always want to do it doggy style. Have you ever had sex with a guy? He's probably either flipped you over, asked you to flip over, or awkwardly attempted to flip you over while you try to manage your limbs. But why? Why do guys feel so compelled to go through all that when vanilla missionary is perfectly serviceable? It's simple: Guys see it as the perfect position. If a guy were making a doggy style pros and cons list, the cons column would be blank. It's good for guys' backs (maybe). It's relatively safe. There are a ton of subtle, yet important, variations that can be employed. But most importantly, it's just plain and simple sex, no accouterments. Sex is complicated and not always pretty. There's sweating, awkward grunting, heavy breathing, strained joints, positions that don't work for both partners, weird noises and body functions, and the list goes on. Doggy style removes all of that. There's no touching. No one hu...

The Spoiling Session: raunchy sex Exercise For Couples

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  What Is A Spoiling Session? A spoiling session is a magical, sexy, multi-purpose exercise that allows you to gain a deeper understanding of your own sexual needs and the sexual needs of your partner, while simultaneously reconnecting you as a couple and melting away the subtle shame and resistance that each partner may or may not have towards sex in general. How Do You Carry Out A Spoiling Session? Spoiling sessions are quite simple. And as you can imagine from their name, are about sexually spoiling yourselves (and therefore each other). A spoiling session is a pre-determined amount of time where one partner (the recipient) gets to have whatever they want done to them/on them/for them, as long as those things fall within the realm of comfort for the giving partner. For example, one partner’s spoiling session could look like the following… “For sixty minutes, every Tuesday night, sometime after 5pm, I will lay on my back while my favorite music plays throughout the room, and my p...

How to prepare for anal: Preparing for anal advice

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Educate yourself about anal Talk to your partner before having anal sex Try anal sex on your own first Keep it hygienic Go slow Level up with anal sex positions 1. Educate yourself The very idea of having anal sex can be nerve-wracking, especially when we consider all the misinformation on the subject. But by first familiarising with what to expect, you can be more prepared and ready when you get down to business for the first time. Look up any element that’s making you worried, whether it’s the potential messiness, the sensation, your partner's love-making style or any psychological aspects. Keep in mind that it’s really vital you don’t rush ahead if you’re not feeling up to it. Your comfort, wellbeing and boundaries are the most important thing and it’s totally okay to wait or give anal sex a miss if you feel as though you're moving too fast, aren't trying it with the right person or don't want to experiment with it at this point in your life. 2. Talk with your partne...

This is the Secret to having regular sex

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Sex can be a hot topic for many couples. And by hot, I don’t mean necessarily steamy. For many long-term couples sex, frequency of it or lack of it, can be a very sensitive subject and is a source conflict.  Today, I would like to share a strategy with you that I tried with my fiancé and it worked wonders for us. A quick side before we dive into it. This approach works best for couples who are both on the same page in terms wanting to restore and maintain regular sex life and who find each other attractive. It is not for couples who might be struggling with other underlying concerns that impact their sex life such as when one partner has depression or feels abused in some way by another. Few years after relationship our sex lives take a back seat As many of you know, after a few years of being in a long-term relationship, the desire to rip your clothes off and to have mind-blowing sex subsides dramatically, to the point where you might start to forget when was the last time you had...

BDSM: A Beginner's Guide

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The couple that plays together stays together!!! It’s time to add a few kinky weapons to your after-dark arsenal. Actually, forget “a few” and add lots of them. Moderation is for sexual puritans. There are fifty thrills and chills in this book, boldly borrowed from the world of BDSM—Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. These edgy ideas are guaranteed to get the juices flowing and the nerves firing like never before. And despite their deviant reputation, they are essential elements of a healthy sex life, even for nice people like you. READING OPTIONS OPTION 1 Download both PDF & EPUB here.  Click  return to merchant  to be redirected  to the page with both PDF & EPUB files! OR Download it in this Reads For COUPLES Bundle here More reading options after random inside pages below! READING OPTIONS Download it @  $9.99   $5.99 When Bundled with these OR Download both PDF & EPUB $9.99  thru PayPal here.   Click return to merchant ...

Couples Sex Guide with OVER 100 Demonstrated Sex Positions

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  Sparks fade. Passion dampens. Life 'happens'. That's the path most relationships take. But what if you could chose a different path? One of intense passion, addicting sexual tension & having someone who constantly thinking about you...even if you've been married for the last 10 years? This book is just that antidote as it looks at various sexual positions which should always be up your sleeve The Couple’s Sex Guide is the antidote to bedroom boredom. It is for couples looking to add a bit of flavor and excitement to their sex lives. Elegant and refined, this book is a perfect gift for a special someone or a friend in love since they will learn,  ~ How to make a deep and meaningful connect with their partner's body. ~ A revolutionary sex practice for couples to enhance sexuality  ~ How to make sex a conscious decision, not an accidental encounter ~ emphasize on how slowness since it increase sensitivity and awakens the body’s innate ecstasy There are so many ch...

Extracting Ancient Sex Secrets for Modern Pleasure

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This book covers and proposes the most interesting exotic, erotic maneuvers that the Kama Sutra, Ananga Ranga, Perfumed Garden, and the practice of yoga brings us. Explore through countless tips techniques and sex positions. What better places to look than the beautiful, ancient secrets contained in the erotic pages of the Kama Sutra Ananga Ranga, Perfumed Garden, and the practice of yoga. Due to an increase of interest in sexuality, and personal growth, these ancient teachings are gaining new acceptance in the pursuit of modern pleasure as they grow older. The erotically positive cultures of the past understood that sexuality was part of a healthy lifestyle. Pleasure, sensuality, and sexuality add happiness, fulfillment, and even more years to our lives. This book is for couples who want to bring back or maintain passion in their sexuality READING OPTIONS OPTION 1 Download both PDF & EPUB here.  Click  return to merchant  to be redirected  to the page with ...

Intimate Couples Igniting Love & Passion

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Intimate couples is a guide designed to be practical on couples, looking at areas which can help them become more intimate. Although intimacy in relationships is enjoyable but the process of achieving it can be scary.  In this book part one covers various ways individuals can do to improve their relationship and get more intimate through understanding oneself and their partner.  Part two of the book looks at the physical part of intimacy from a simple touch to some of the most intimate sexual games a couple may engage in to improve their intimacy. This book covers these two aspects in a tone every average couple will understand – daily interactions and attitudes -physical intimacy - this will relight their love and passion for each other.  No theories – a daily practical guide for couples who care to improve their relationship READING OPTIONS OPTION 1 Download both PDF & EPUB here.  Click  return to merchant  to be redirected  to the page with...

Couples Guide to Increasing Quantity & Quality of Sex

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Unpredictable, uncontrollable and unbelievably hot! This book is a surefire way to turn up the heat in your relationship. It is packed with steamy tips and tricks for building the ultimate sexual tension with your partner making them always passionately think about YOU. It has timeless advice that can be used by anyone at any stage of their relationship with their significant other.be it a relationship of 30 days or 30 years. With this alluring book you will make your partner your own stalker; sure you’ll discover exhilarating new ways to have a blast in your sex life. So many relationships start out great, with passionate sex and having lots of fun with each other. But almost always, as the relationship progresses, things start to become routine…to the point where it can actually become even a little boring. If your partner starts to get bored, then you are increasing the risk that they are going to look for excitement elsewhere (in other words, cheating). The book will teach you how ...

Couples Guide to Erotic Massage

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  Dare to awaken your body, and that of your partner, to new experiences of sensual love and pleasure. Have fun experimenting with the abundant know-how techniques offered in this book about a good massage. The type of massage you will learn here offers more intimate, profound, and mindful contact than that proffered by mere sex. And, of course, it provides much more pleasure. Discover, here, a new way of getting in touch with your body, a new way of erotic encounter with your beloved, a path full of sensuality, pleasure, and partnership. couple’s massage, that wonderful way of giving and receiving, is our best means of caring for a relationship, to enrich it and strengthen its weak points, to make it more profound and more substantial each time Couple’s massage can revive a stuck relationship and it can bring two people who are drifting apart to feel renewed love. It can bring back passion to a loving relationship that has become routine. This can happen for any couple, whatever t...

Sexual Roleplays with Over 100 Demonstrated Sex Games

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  This book is your ticket to that toe-curling sex that you’ve both been dreaming of. When you indulge in the fantasies and games outlined here, you’ll not only be giving your sex life the time it deserves, but you’ll be injecting creativity and passion into it as well. Each of these scenarios provides a steamy sex date hot enough to put the sizzle back into any relationship! The possibilities are limited only the imagination, so if getting dressed up in the name of sexual self-discovery sounds appealing to you Explore new territories, flip through the book and experiment with pieces, parts, or entire games and fantasies. Find one that quickens your blood, or just brings a smile to your face, then suggest it to your partner and get started to play. READING OPTIONS OPTION 1 Download both PDF & EPUB here . Click  return to merchant  to be redirected  to the page with both PDF & EPUB files! OR Download it in this Reads For COUPLES Bundle here More reading o...